YOU HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP?
Are you bouncing back and forth on confused seas? Does your internal compass swing wildly around? Dr. Lucy Loveboat can help calm your troubled waters. Here’s a recent exchange of letters between the eminent counselor and a bachelorette in Annapolis.
Dear Doctor Loveboat
I met this guy at a meet-up, one of those dating
deals where you spend two minutes talking with 20 different men. I found
myself face to face with this really good-looking, tanned, healthy,
smiling, smart, vibrant guy. I asked him what he liked to do. He told me
he liked to cruise on his boat. I’m not a boater. What should I do?
Dear Anxious (Don’t be.)
I call your attention to an online survey of 542 boat owners and 536 non-boat owners by Impulse Research Corporation of Los Angeles. The findings show that the boat owners reported higher levels of satisfaction in marriage and romance than non-boaters. Not only that, Anxious in Annapolis, but boat owners more than others rated their overall well-being, health, work, leisure, sleep and finances as “very good” or “excellent.”
That’s not all. Another study of 1004 parents asked them about the health and happiness of their children. National Marine Manufacturers Association, which also commissioned this survey, reported that the kids who boat are healthier than their non-boating kids physically and psychologically. They are more outgoing, more optimistic, more self-confident, more likely to be better team players and more likely to be leaders among their peer group.
The research also shows that boating kids are more likely to do household chores and help with cooking. They have more interests, participating regularly in eight activities compared to only four for non-boating kids. Another family bonus: boating children spend more quality time with parents, even in non-boating months.
Go for it, Anxious. You’re going to get to see an exciting side of life and perhaps a braver side of yourself. As your family grows and goes boating together, you’ll see your progeny absorb just the right mixtures of independence and discipline, courage and caution, brains and brawn. Boating does that to its people, the young and the not-so-young.
Safe boating teaches kids to do what Mom and Dad say. Boating with kids teaches Mom and Dad how to have fun like kids. Living on a boat teaches us to leave our Game Boys and laptops at home. Living aboard teaches us to get along and to enjoy each other’s company and special differences.
You’ll get to see your five-year-old excitedly watching a crab crawl across the sand. Is that not a mutually-exhilarating experience for mother and child? You’ll smile inside when you watch that little kid with muscles lower the anchor. You’ll shed a proud mother’s tear when you overhear your confident pre-teen on the marine radio asking the dockmaster about a slip for the night. You’ll be onboard when your teenager flawlessly puts your vessel into a tight slip or carries out his or her responsibilities during a bad situation on the water.
To paraphrase the credit card commercial, the experiences of boating are priceless. I’d say, priceless in two ways. One, your children learn and hone the skills of life. And, two, you get to see them grow into responsible, happy citizens.
Good luck to you, Anxious in Annapolis. Luck, yes, because none of these good things are guaranteed. You’ll still have to work at it. Yes, of course, of course; you should go on a few dates. But if you decide to marry this man and join the crusing lifestyle, you can take some comfort in the favorable odds that boating gives you.
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20th Anniversary Sail-A-Bration Extended to Nov. 1, 2005
We are celebrating our 20th Anniversary with 20% off all charters of 5 days or longer between July 13, 2003 and July 13, 2005!
Good News!! Our Sale has been extended to November 1st! And there’s more good news. For August, September and October, the 20% OFF APPLIES TO CHARTERS OF 3 DAYS OR LONGER! Now you can plan that great summer or fall weekend getaway and save 20%, too!
don’t forget that our Sail and Power Boating School is also celebrating
with a FREE Weems and Plath Navigation Kit given to all students who
graduate from our school between now and July 13, 2005!
Call to reserve your charter or class dates today! 1-800-262-7939
JUNE and JULY- Three Beautiful Cruising
Mark your calendar, pack your sea bag and set off on a sail or power cruising adventure during some of the most beautiful weather months of the year.
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YACHT SALES AND BROKERAGE
Southwest Florida Yacht Sales is focused on matching boat buyers from around the world with trawlers, motor-yachts and sailing vessels 30-feet or longer. It is a member and abides by the code of ethics of the Yacht Brokers Association of America and the Florida Yacht Brokers Association.
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YACHT SALESMAN WANTED
We have an immediate opening for a yacht salesman to join our professional yacht brokerage team. Sail and power boat handling and maintenance experience a must. Background in general business, marketing, or finance preferred. This is a commission-only, contracted sales position. WANTED: One energetic, proven sales person to join our expanding yacht brokerage office. Complete office and support provided. For more information call Vic Hansen at 239.656.1339 or E-mail Resume to Barbara Hansen.
SAIL OR CRUISE INTO WINTER AND SAVE!
Announcing . . . 10% OFF ALL CHARTERS!
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